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Family Separation, Adoption/Foster Care
Family separation can happen for all kinds of reasons - adoption, foster care, immigration, addiction, mental illness, incarceration, and more. For some, the separation and what came after is seen as a blessing. For others, it may have been a deeply painful life experience. It’s always there, in the background, and affects people throughout the lifespan. We can help you sort out how much is the ‘adoption/etc experience’ and how much is the other stuff of life. There is no blueprint for the relationships we often develop after a family separation experience. It’s less about ‘nature vs. nurture’, and more about figuring out who you want to be moving forward.
DNA discoveries (found family members, realizing “Dad” isn’t biological father, and more)
Adopted people — domestic, international, transracial
Original parents, and expectant parents considering adoption
Obtaining original birth records
Search and reunion
Childhood abuse and neglect in adoptive/foster/original families
Consult for people considering adopting
Genetic sexual attraction (GSA)
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